Aloha e everyone and welcome to May 2004 of Kaleo O Nani Newsletter!

 

I hope all mothers reading this had a very special day, now we plan for Father's Day.There is an oriental saying that goes something like this; "a home without a mother lacks foundation without a father there is no roof."Children and Ohana (family) need for foundation and roof.Celebrating life and living as a family is an important piece in the life of a child.  When we cherish our spouses we assure the unity of a child's living balanced and feeling security,  Food for thought, as always take what you need from this newsletter and discard the rest.

 

Enjoy, Nanipuaaalaomaililaulii - White Raven

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Comments from readers:

Hello Nani,   I love the appearance of this months newsletter. It looks great. You are unbelievably talented - I am so glad you are in my circle of life. As more and more people come forward to share their personal stories about what they have encountered we will learn more and more of what it takes to reach "Harmony".  I look forward to reading each months words and contemplating the thoughts.  There is something in everything everyone writes that takes us closer and closer. It is good to have the feeling of being a part of something good. Iris
 

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Nani, your new format is beautiful!  Thank you for posting the articles.  I hope they help open eyes for those who maybe don't understand.

Your newsletter is really wonderful and is just so positive.
Thank you.
Christine

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Aloha, my friend!  Long time no see, but I think of you often. Excellent newsletter again today! 

So, Nani, what can a regular person like me do to help some of these children?  It's mind-boggling to me that these things are still going on.  Do you have some literature or something you could send me, perhaps teach me a bit about their particular culture? What are their needs (that someone like me could look into, put the word out, try to help?) Sadly, I'm not a teacher, but I am willing to brainstorm to see how I could help...

I also want to share an article with you --because you were the inspiration behind it. Remember not too long ago you mentioned *Integrity* in one of your newsletters?  About doing the right thing -- even when no one's looking...   Well, I couldn't get it off my mind, and finally an article was born, You're welcome to use it as you see fit, if you choose to.  Sending blessings and kindness your way,

Dar


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Nani: Thank you so much for coming to the API event Saturday. Your newsletter is awesome.

I would like to reprint from it and promote it to our members. Is that OK?

-Ben Cabildo, Director
AHANA Business and Professional Association


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Fine Newsletter, Nani,

Thank you for being the rare essence you are.
Aloha, Burt
President, Speaking Success Arizona


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Christine Rose did a great job of "seeing through the eyes and walking in the steps"...Isn't it uplifting to know that insight into the dilemma of racism is alive and well and within reach of all who will open heart, mind, spirit, and then ACT positively upon that insight to make life better for all people! 

Maika'i, Christine!  Leilani in Colorado.


                                          
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Did you know?

Garlic- often referred to as a "miracle food" more than lives up to that description.  There's not much this herb can't do.  Can you think of any other food that is proven to fight infection, thin the blood, alleviate high blood pressure, lower cholesterol, stimulate the immune system, treat lung infections and some studies indicate improve or prevent cancer?   Garlic historically was in use in Egyptian papyrus of medicinal preparations dating from 1500 B.C. and lists 22 garlic preparations for ailments such as headache, weakness and sore throat.  There are records this was recorded in Greece, Roman soldiers took it for strength and endurance and ancient oriental healers recommended garlic as a way to reduce high blood pressure.  In India Shamans suggested garlic as a successful treatment for heart disease.  Garlic which contains "Alicia is even stronger than the two most popular prescription antibiotics - penicillin and tetracycline.  A study in Jean Carpers "The Food Pharmacy" reported 72 separate infections were treatable with garlic.  Interesting food for thought!

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THOUGHTS FOR THE DAY:

Did you know that one half of the CEO's of Fortune 500 companies had a "C" or "C-" average in college?  Sixty five percent of all U.S. Senators come from the "bottom half of their class", 75% of Presidents of the United States were in the "lower half club" in school and over 505 of millionaires and entrepreneurs never finished college.  Hum!  Still think you can't do it?  (read Robert J. Kriegel's book, If it ain't Broke don't Fix It (warner books 1991)

Point to Ponder: Many believe that official credentials are the keys to success and you will never hear me argue that credentials aren't useful.     Wise entrepreneurs realize while credentials might get you in the door, it is your knowledge, action plan, perseverance, integrity, tenacity diligence and MARKETING skills that keeps you there or tosses you out on your ears.  Review your goals, skills, both strengths and weakness.  Write them down, thinking is not the same as "seeing the written word."  Why is this step important?  It reviews your thoughts, helps you to discard those you didn't mean and validates what you know and shows you what you don't know.  When you are finished proceed to Let's try this paragraph.

Let's Try This: Simple task to check your "what makes me unique" marketing tools.  Look at your advertising blirp, one sheet, business card. Next check your competitors either from their one sheet or the yellow pages.  Be very alert to what is the same and what is different.  Circle the words they use that you use to describe your services. What's left?  If your ad or one sheet is the same as there's, I the consumer will call for your services or theirs by random dialing.  If however, you empower me with your UNIQUE SERVICE by a single glance, my fingers will dial your number every time.  For example, my dentist in Montana's card and ad in the yellow pages says, "I cater to cowards." His logo is a simple bite.   Get the "picture".  In that short sentence he tells me he will be gentle, you can trust me! 

Point of Action: What will you do to unleash the power within?  Thought is energy and begins twice, first in the mind second when you take action.  Review your advertising or 10 second commercial promoting your UNIQUENESS!  Most people are wasting advertising money.  To be the same as your competitor keeps you both in the 95% that do not excel.  This is one time when being different, standing out, counts towards your success.  Let me know how this exercise went for you. nani@universityoflife.info   I am available for consultation. 

 

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Spirit of Hope Recognition for April

For American soldiers who fight the tiger everyday to keep us free. Pause and reflect for a moment on the sacrifice of each soldier from every branch of the service, every walk of life, every heritage of our land. Awesome vision isn't it!  Our diverse group of warriors defend our freedom so we might go about our daily lives to work, play, build, criticize, run for office, protest, build a business, sit and do nothing if we wish, enjoy a night out, run and play with our children, take in a movie, go to a concert, visit a casino, tell jokes about them or the president of us all, have a coke or a beer if you want, hold the hand of your special person, comfort your child or grandchild, the list is endless and the price of our collective freedom is high, always has been. Proof of that are the endless rows of graves of our brave American warriors in our country and overseas. Do we really take time to appreciate their sacrifice or do we find ourselves too busy complaining of the price of gasoline, the heat or focusing on what we do not have rather than giving thanks for what we do have and the price being paid as I write this by someone's son or daughter, father, mother, spouse or sweetheart, so we might have and keep it?

Where do we get such brave young men? How do we honor their service? How do we show their families that we care? How do we support them now in harms way as I write? In an election year can we see beyond the rhetoric and focus on them?  Can we help in anyway to keep them safe? These are questions that each of us can answer or not because of the freedom we enjoy due to their sacrifices.

 

Thank you to those who serve and have served. We are often ungrateful and insensitive. Yet we love and cherish you and your service to this nation. We find these brave warriors amongst us, that's where! They project the kindness and decency of Americans who when united shout out, "when you hurt one of us, you have the entire nation to deal with." 

 

What can you do?  Next time you see a member of our military, stop and say thanks for staying alert day and night so I don't have too.

 

What a country!  Warts and all we are a free nation thanks to the men who wear our uniform and their commander in chief who takes the slams from everywhere in the world, listens to the ranting of ill informed, ungrateful countries, media outlets and some in our own land who want the goodies of life without a clue of the price it cost to enjoy freedom. Remember all who serve in your prayers. This humble writer can think of no adequate words except Thank You, each and everyone. Well done thou good and faithful servants. "Greater love hath no man than this that he lay down his life for his friends", I am truly humbled beyond words by your courage and love for your country and recognize you with the Spirit of Hope Little Brown Penny Recognition for April 2004.  If you are the loved one of a serviceman or woman Mahalo for your sacrifice as well.

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Condolences Offered:  We offer our profound condolences to the family of Myrtle Peterson, teacher and member of the Assiniboine Sioux Executive Council for her sudden passing.  She is a lost to her family, a great community, the council and the children whom she has served well.  We shall miss her  charm, vivacious and tenacious will as she worked for the benefit of her beloved Indian people.  We dedicate our efforts to complete tasks for the benefit of the children as she would have wanted it done.  Accept out deepest sympathy on behalf of University OF Life and Hope.  Nani -White Raven

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"Better than the one who knows what is right is he who loves what is right."  Confucius

MASTERING THE ART OF LIVING
By Nani Aki Linder

Successful living always depends on intent and purity of thought to do no harm as you go about your life's journey. All things begin with choices and then work. Nothing is automatic. Seeing your life as half full or half empty is a choice. One is on survive mode, the other thrive. Pick one!

                                                                Malama Pono, Nani

 

 

Hawaii Land of Aloha, land of my birth and the sacred teachings of our people.Many people do not know that Hawaii is a kingdom that was taken by force, our queen imprisoned and at one point sentenced to death.We have the only Palace in the United States called Iolani Palace. Former President Clinton signed an apology bill to our people in 1993 and as I write this, our people "the Hawaiians" continue to struggle for their own homeland.  There are many debates; one is the Akaka bill now pending on the floor of the U.S. Senate, another is the claim of the people for autonomy in the United Nations, meanwhile out people wait while they do studies and studies of studies. 

 

Clearly a decision has to be made for the welfare of the people and justice which leaves no one behind, including those who now share the wealth of our islands. Our islands are needed by the military as a harbor for the safety of the United States and all Americans and our people require adequate housing, education and work opportunities. There is a myth, actually a stereotype that Hawaiians are "all lazy."  Such rot!  For shame on those who circulate or consent with their silence by circulating this nonsense.In every society we have our share of professionals, teachers, doctors, lawyers, politicians and yes we also have jerks.  That does not mean that every race should be tarred with the brush of "lazy bums!" Calm, reasoned, non-militant negotiations present the best possibilities for resolution not just for us but with every serious problem situation.

Everyday we delay our Kupuna (elders) do without.Everyday we delay, another Kupuna dies waiting for the basics they are entitled to.  FYI, our queen was educated and a prolific writer.  Our Kamehameha Schools produce some of the finest scholars and professionals who are second to none.  The monies to education our children at Kamehameha are not at tax payer expense but paid for by the money set aside by the crown lands of our royal family.  We are an inclusive people who extend our aloha (joyous breath of life) to all people.Our work ethic is high, heritage proud and strong, unity and loyalty a given.  We are Hawaiian Kanaka Maoli Wa Apana canoe paddlers.  No one asked us if we wanted to be categorized as Native American's, I doubt anyone asked the Indian Nations either. 

 

Why do I write of this?  For clarification and education, many people do not know.  If we don't speak up who will and how will you know! Now you have a small glimpse, feel free to ask questions, go on the internet and check it out. My library of Hawaii's history is here and many libraries have information.  Did you know we are being registered as I write?  In the United States we register dogs and some cats, American Indian people and Hawaiian's.  I am registered, I carry my ID and so do Indians.  Tell me, do you have an ID that identifies you by your nationality? Since my ancestors were standing on the shores to greet yours and Indians were her to greet Lewis and Clark, why are we the ones registered? Interesting food for thought isn't it?  We all have drivers license and social security two nationalities have "ethnic identification cards.  These are offered as facts and food for thought  nothing more.

 

Please send me your comments and or criticisms.I print responses, positive or negative. Why? I respect your right to agree or disagree. When our team of U of Life and Hope trainers comes, our focus is you and we leave our egos at the door.In my opinion it is the only way to problem solve and educate.Email me nani@universityoflife.info

                                               

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FEATURE ARTICLE 

Dr. Adams is still unable to get his article to me so we will defer it till next month.  He is making a station change and out in the bush country of Australia where computers and sending messages isn't always conducive.  Please accept my sincerest regrets but we will publish his article when it arrives.  Thank you for your understanding.  Nani

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Thoughtful Comment from a reader to Christine's two riveting articles on racism on reservations:

 

Dear Nani,

Thank you, once again, for a riveting April Newsletter. The two part series written by Christine Rose is profound.   It is also true - every single word of it. As I finished reading her words, I tried to imagine myself  as a non-Indian woman reading about the battles Indian Children in America are facing on a daily basis in today's schools.

It was hard for me to read the words and take responsibility for being part of the silent majority who worships money and belongings and ignore the abuse of children because they are not like the majority.

Yet, that is what each of us must do. Place ourselves in the role of an Indian child who is sent to war (in schools across America) without the tools to defend themselves.

For Indian families across America, schools have become battle grounds - complete with Generals who fight heartlessly to shove Indian children into a mold they will never fit into. The end result is that these Indian children will be quietly ushered from the school - either

expelled under trumped up charges or "encouraged" to attend another school. Last year, several Indian children stood up with me and we sent affidavits to the Office of Civil Rights.

 

Today, several of those children "who dared" have been expelled. I believe they were expelled as punishment for standing up for themselves.  And I believe that if it were possible - I too would be expelled from the human race for standing with them.

 

The reward to any child who dares to try and change the school system to meet the needs of people of culture and tradition is denial of an education. Am I making any headway in my task of changing the school system to accommodate the dominant culture of the student body?

 

The answer is "yes". It's like trying to pull teeth from a growing, snarling tiger. Not easy - nor impossible.Will there be casualties?  "Yes" There will be more casualties before the change is made - but it will be made.

 

                                                Grandmother Iris Allrunner

 

 

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Point of Action: This issue presented many thought provoking articles.

 

If you have questions and comments please feel free to email me, nani@universityoflife.info.Think about ways you might add a positive ray of light into the life of a neighbor, hungry person or friends you may know.  Find a service man or woman and say thanks.  Play with your children and let loose the furry pet you have in your back yard.Know of a lonely elder in your community?Reach out and visit or take them out for lunch.See a homeless person?  Stop and give them one of the $5 food certificates you can get at any Burger King, Wendy's, McDonalds or other fast food place.Take a moment to thank creator for the freedom of speech, opportunity and rights you have. 

 

Know this:In all the world there is no one just like you, you are unique and special right where you stand.There are seeds of greatness in each of you, all you gotta do is feed it, water it and believe.Come, take my hand and I will help you to believe and see.Why?You are worthy!

 

Reflective moment: When someone critiques you harshly or you have a moment of "I' am not worthy or I don't belong", ask yourself this question; is what I just heard about me or my heritage true?  The answer is most often a resounding "no", then THROW THE RUBBISH COMMENT AWAY.   DO NOT MAKE NONSENSE IMPORTANT BY GIVING IT TIME.That is my kupuna's wisdom and awesome advice that I practice daily and share with you.

 

 

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Next Two Months Guest Writer's (Note I will also make sure Dr. Adams article is printed in its entirety.)

Nancy Donahue, Silver Master Director Sunrider International will dazzle us with her natural remedies and tips.  She is a friend of 20 + years whose knowledge in holistic is admirable. You are in for an exciting read and invaluable tips for living healthy with the possibilities of regeneration for yourself and your family.

Ben Cabildo, Executive Director AHANA will tickle our vision with words of wisdom in the July issue.  Ben is a dynamic entrepreneur who has built numerous successful business ventures.  We are honored by his willingness to share his expertise.  Need proven business advice? "Better call Ben!"

Need a keynote, Diversity, Leadership, cross cultural awareness, spirit of hope health and wellness or communication skills speaker? E-mail me Nani@universityoflife.info  or call for a free consultation.

 

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University Of Life Spring-Summer Schedule

1. Frassati School of Leadership Diversity Conference is rescheduled, Spokane, Washington June 29, 2004. Call Michael or Rachael Muglia for reservations and information. 509-487-5323. Nani Linder trains the staff for Frassati and they teach exclusively "Be A Star" and " University Of Life Spirit Of Hope Cross Cultural Leadership" as their curriculum. Certificate available for this conference.

2. Nani will be teaching Be A Star series cross cultural awareness and teacher immersion orientation recommendations. "Raven's Voice" in May 20-21, 2004, at the Sheridan Inn, Wolf Point Montana. Roxanne Bighorn and Theresa Knoble are handling the details of this conference. 1 cr. available.

3. Spirit of Hope conference Wolf Point, Montana May 22, 2004, Sheridan Inn, Wolf Point Montana.  Continental breakfast and lunch will be served . This conference addresses health and wellness issues and natural possibilities of regeneration. It is our belief that the body itself is the miracle when you feed it proper nutrition. Trial By Fire will be discussed.  WRC fundraiser, Beth Pohl and Theresa Knoble are contact persons and coordinators

4. July 9-23 I will be in Hawaii   July 27, 30, 31 and Aug. 1 conferences in Spokane, Washington details in the next newsletter.

5. June I will be in Sedona Az. and Spokane, Wa.

6. August 3 conferences scheduled details to be announced in next month's news letter this will be in Montana.

A hui hou dear hearts until next month June 10, 2004

 

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