Aloha e everyone and welcome to February 10, 2005 of Kaleo O Nani Newsletter!

Its a new month!  I am looking forward to spring and watching new life spring from the warmth of the earth.  New baby animals, enchanting rainbows and wonderful green grass to run barefoot on.  Cool Kona breeze of the tropics, sipping cool refreshing Calli beverage.  Preparing the soil for planting.  Sights and sounds of children as they laugh and play.  Wow!  Spring is in the air for me even if there are 5 more weeks of winter.  visualize!  Send your warm greetings of hope into the universe for all to bask in just for the asking.  Welcome dear hearts to a shinning sprit of happy, optimistic, positive, energy from my heart to yours.

In a Spirit Of Hope,

Nanipuaaalaomaililaulii Aki Linder - Alala Ke'o ke'o White Raven

Comments From Our Readers:

I loved your article on perception and attitude and the story of your sister living here.  I would say to others "right here in Spokane I find one of the wisest woman I have ever known.  Nani Linder brings her unique perspective to cultural issues from Hawaii -- a place where in so many ways they have mastered the celebration of cultural differences.  She explains and challenges with her unique style of story telling and never fails to cause me to think deeply and, as a result, understand more profoundly. She is one of Spokane's treasures!

Mary C. Butler  Executive Director Parks & Recreation Foundation, Spokane                                    

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Oh, Nani,

    How the world needs to read your words!
Exquisite and timeless expressions of truth.
Thank you for sharing your light with the world.

Aloha,

Burt Dubin, President
Speaking Success Institute

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I am so thrilled you are in Spokane. You will add a wonderful strand to our community fabric.
Yvonne Lopez Mortan,

Hispanic Commissioner

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I have lived in many parts of this country, and have seen and heard those who
showed prejudice towards others.  We have all seen it over the years and it
continues to this day.  I do think that it is idiotic to believe that just
thinking that using the in thing now, "Political Correct"
words will suffice.  It takes more than words, it takes believing in your
fellow man, showing respect, and seeing the face of Jesus in their faces.  For we
all are children of God. 

God Bless,   love from Rose

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 Nani, I'm addressing what I wanted to write to you about my feelings regarding your Newsletter.  Some of the feelings this elderly third generation Polish woman had are feelings she's not proud of...whether they're just echoes of bigots among whom she was raised or just the fact that her lack of confidence made it so much easier to "join in" rather than stand her ground.  Funny, it took a little girl who was put in day care 23 years ago, so that her mother could return to work, to teach her mother to "look beyond skin color" or "look beyond a less than perfect mastery of the English language" to accept the differences in others as assets rather than negatives.  It's too bad that there are too many of us bigots in various pockets throughout the US who would rather join in instead of stand their ground.  Your sister was witness to this.   I've been bothered by the hurt you portray in your Newsletter.  I wanted to ignore your message but found myself thinking and rethinking about what you said.  I've come a long way from who I was. God bless you, Nani, for the good message you send out to us.  Again, yours is such a simple wisdom that if we'd just stop looking so hard, we'd see the answer.  I'm so happy to be among those that you consider as true friends.   Love and hugs, Barbara from Pa.

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 "Nani's gift of straight talk mixed with compassion is part of what makes her such a powerful woman of hope.  She commands a room with her presence.  She interacts and facilitates an ongoing, open dialogue. I have yet to walk away from her without being profoundly moved by our interaction."

Deb Barnes, Co-Founder

Woman's Summit

Spokane www.thewomensummit.com

 

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Dear Barbara, Burt, Mary, Rose, Yvonne, Deb and the countless others who responded to previous newsletters.  Mahalo for your kind thoughts, I applaud your courage in sharing your mana'o (thoughts) your kindness is noted and appreciated.   Nani

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Some Thoughts on the Social Security Debate 
By:  Nani Aki Linder - White Raven

Goodness the air permeates with debate on Social Security.  Will it be there for younger generation?  Who will get hurt the most?  What are personal accounts anyway?  It's "ye old pit one class of people against another trick."  I am disappointed with all the bickering by our elected officials.  With your permission I will share first hand knowledge on part of what the President is speaking about as far as Personal Savings Accounts.   Federal employees are offered this opportunity as a choice.

My husband Ron spent 36 years (with his Military time) in Federal government service.  They started what was called TSP accounts for employees and we were allowed to put in 2-4% of salary every month as well as either social security or civil service and Medicare.  The TSP (personal savings account) is voluntary and we had choices of low-medium risk stocks, annuities etc.  When Ron was given early retirement, his retirement plan began.  For women worried that they will get left out as a spouse, the government sent me a letter explaining that the lumpsum TSP (separate from Ron's retirement) would not be turned over to Ron with out my signature because  I was his spouse with rights of benefit.  They told  me my options.  I chose to sign a release and Ron rolled his TSP into an IRA of his choice with myself as beneficiary.  It is building today separate from his retirement.  So when organizations come out and say women will be left out or suffer the most, that is not my experience.  Indeed it is the exact opposite.

Don't let anybody tell you this can't work.  Its been in the Federal System for about 20 + years now and every Senator and Congressman knows this.   Its been working for a lot of federal employees, including congress, so there is no reason the proposal set by our President can't work for all citizens if that is what you choose. 

It doesn't take rocket science to know Social Security is headed for a train wreck.  It is going to take courage to fix it.  Better to fix it now before our grandchildren will have nothing, don't you agree?  

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THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: 

          Constantly choosing the lesser of two evils is still choosing evil.

~ Jerry Garcia ~

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MASTERING THE ART OF LIVING
By Nani Aki Linder

             Exploring the possibilities in Improving vs. Changing!

Consider the following possibilities.

 

Humans are not good at change, they get comfortable right where they are so the perception is, "if it isn't broke don't fix it!" Are you with me so far?

 

Let's try an approach that often works for me and is what I teach. See improvement in living as the way to move forward rather than change.  Why?  Change implies bringing all the baggage of the past in moving on.  It means letting go of "stuff", listening to the voices of your youth of the you cant's, shouldn't, are you kidding me", that fills our psyche with negative energy.  We end up fighting not just the desire to change but the voices that have haunted as to why we can't.  See why change is exhausting? 

 

Thinking deeper; when you decide to make select choices of improvement in living you bring only yourself and the "definite intent" of your being front and center.  Defending this

prognosis; change has two responses either reactive or response.

 

Reactive meaning, looking for what's wrong. Response meaning, Looking for what's right. See the difference!  Subtle change, major shift to moving forward.

 

A statement that I heard quite often when I was a Sales Director in Mary Kay Cosmetics was, "my spouse is not supportive, he thinks I am changing and he doesn't like it."  Sound familiar?

 

Here is my answer

If you are a female know that it takes a very secure man to live with a female with a dream, especially if it is a  huge dream. 

 

If you are a male, females draw financial lines and clear boundaries for the safety of their family, marriage and home.  Now that you know this, keep your spouses in the loop and everything transparent.  Seek their counsel, make decisions based on the "we" covenant you made on your wedding day.  See through your spouses eyes and you show them to see through yours. 

 

thinking deeper:  Make time for cherishing each other.  Share the improvements in life and living that your adventure is producing.

 

"Yesterday people aren't moving forward!"   unknown

 

Knowledge is a result.  Going backward is a result.  Incomplete is a result.  Begin every task with the "intent to finish" Why?  So you do not get caught in the circle of repeat.

 

Read this section again, it is important to grasp.

 

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New Program Announcement: Limited mentoring offered personally by CEO, Nani Linder at University Of Life & Hope in Cultural Enrichment! (Diversity), leadership and effective communication

Here are the details:

             Be mentored personally by Nani Aki Linder, CEO 

                     "Your success is my passion!"

What?   I am accepting only 13 students for 2005  

When?    Starting now. 

 

To be enrolled as a candidate in this limited program please e-mail me the following in one (1) paragraph or less.

 

Dear Nani, I believe I am a candidate for your personal mentoring program because__________.

 

I believe my niche is____________________ but would like to expand to ______________and _________________. 

 

Date and sign please. 

 

Fee:  When you are accepted, the fee schedule and payment options will be explained.  A 6 month commitment is required to assure you of quality benefits. 

 

What if the class fills?  I will place you on a waiting list and notify you when there is a vacancy.

 

Why are you beginning this inner circle 13 mentoring group? 

 

"Answer the why and everything else falls into place."   

 

There are many of you talented souls searching for your niche and your beginning.   Your heartfelt desire is to walk the destiny meant only for you.  You yearn to be the best, in your chosen niche.  I have heard your requests and began by revealing to you last month how I started and built U of Life & Hope so quickly. I hired the best mentor I could find, listened, studied and took decisive action to become.  I choose now to give back and share my timeless truths by mentoring. 

If your mission is to become "the expert" in your niche;  mine is to help you attain it. I take an oath to teach you all the skills of mastery that I know.  Nothing is ever held back.  You are safe in my hands because  "your success is my passion!"

"To be the best, find the best mentor.  Listen and do exactly what he/she says!"

                                 Burt Dubin, President Speaking Success Institute

 

 A question several people have asked meWould you, Nani consider mentoring on meditation and spirituality?  My answer is yes only if a candidate is sincere and demonstrates dedicated intent to follow direction.  If this is an area you wish to apply for indicate this in your paragraph email to me.

 

Answer the questions and email to me ASAP Nani@universityoflife.info or call me at

509-467-7714

 

What?   NEW Inner Circle Mastermind 13 Mentoring Program

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Continuing with our Tip Sheets series we add five new tidbits of hope which we invite you to ponder.  

University Of Life Tip Sheet Series part 3

By Nanipuaaalaomaililaulii Aki Linder

 

1. "Plan to have abundance, enough to eat, place to live, a flowing abundance of money to take care of your bills and help others in need for the rest of your life because you are worthy and deserve the best life has to offer."  What you think about you bring about is universal law!

 2.  Say everyday; "I am whole, perfect, strong, loving, happy and harmonious and I can be what I will to be!"  Say it out loud..........These are universal truths.........Say it everyday and claim these truths that Creator meant for you.

 3.  Thoughts become things!  Remember the saying, "be careful what you wish for?"  Thought is energy, so remember daily to tell yourself what you do want or you will continue to get all the don'ts.

 4.  Visualization is an important component of U of Life & Hope.

 5.  Whatever you do, wherever you go remember to give thanks to Creator for the morning as it unfolds with yet to be experienced adventure.  Give thanks for the lessons one is to learn at this moment in time. For all that you are and have.  Lift all creatures human and animal alike for blessings from above.  Bless those you consider enemies, leave no one behind.  Fill the air with positive energy so that others who are weary may pause and awash themselves in your gift of hope.  At sunset give thanks for the grace and abundance of the day and lift your petition for a restful night. 

What we share are timeless truths.  As always my friends you are free to accept or reject anything we share.

 

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He olina leo ka kealoha "praise loudly, critique softly!"

NOTE: We are beginning our 2006 application intake scheduling for non-profit seminar fund raising soon.

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Community Service Announcements

www.changingwinds.org is an organization of Speakers dedicated to uplifting the lives of Native Americans everywhere.  The speakers are well known in their fields and experienced in various forums.  If your organization is in need of cultural diversity speakers please go on line and email Christine.  You may also email me as I am the cross cultural speaker with this team of experts.  We are particularly effective in Indian Education, how to file civil rights complaints, cultural immersion, teaching teachers on reservations, administrators, tribal councils, superintendents of schools and college events about the "real" problems faced by native students everyday.It is my firm opinion that Cultural Awareness is the missing link in education. 

Call me at 509-467-7714 or email nani@universityoflife.info

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The Women's Summit launches a new magazine  B*Road at their summit scheduled for March 12, 2005, Ridpath Hotel at Spokane Washington.  You are to call 866.2535-2360 for information and reservations or go to www.thewomensummit.com and reserve your seat.  Do it today.  This would be a great opportunity to Sponsor an event where your business is showcased at this event.  This promises to be a wonderful event.  I made my reservations, have you?

Deb Barnes, Julie Henry and Ann Martinson co-founders

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 FYI, I am in Montana the months of April to November.  Please confirm your workshop with our office or representatives ASAP.

 

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Northwest Women's Magazine in Spokane has a new Owner/Editor. 

Charity Doyl has moved into her new offices and is setting about putting together her first magazine issue.  Charity is married with three delightful daughters.  She is originally from the Philippine Islands and has the loving support of her Husband and in-laws.  You may go on line at www.northwestwomensmagazine.com to subscribe.Vickie Dar was the former owner of the magazine.  Charity is a member of the AHANA group of Spokane.

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Please check and make sure you have your own homeland security survival supplies in case of emergency.  I would recommend knowing where your water will come from and food.  Have some rice and beans spices and soup mix for flavoring, dried fruit, canned milk for babies.  Flashlight and lots of batteries, camping equipment cleaned and matches in case you need to cook outdoors.  Have a family plan and where to meet in case you get separated.  Know if you have relatives close by.  Store supplies for your pets if you have some.  Medication should be handy and a first aid kit would be an essential.  Keep your gas tank filled and an extra gas can filled in the winter.  Be alert to the weather and changes in the behavior of the animals around you.  The earth is experiencing many changes, be alert but do not fear.  Creator is near by, be sure to say thank you at your sunrise and sunset.  Know that you are cherished.

      Nanipuaaalaomaililaulii - White Raven

     

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A hui hou dear hearts until next month March 10, 2005 

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